Comfort Zone

As will come as a surprise to no one, on the Meyers-Briggs scale I am all J and no P. I am all about making a decision and scooting along the path, dithering about a choice and being in the process feels like a wee bit of hell to me. Pick something and get on with it; if it doesn’t go well, a different choice can always be made along the way.

All things considered, this has worked for me. After all, I’m still above ground and, for the most part, functioning. But I am often surrounded by people who need to do otherwise. Many people I love truly need to abide in the process.

Supporting and caring for them as they go through this is one of my greatest challenges. No matter what extremely difficult episodes I have been in, if I had any decision to make, I made it and felt comfort. Watching others struggle winds me up in the most taut of knots. But I do my damnedest to just watch. To listen and to be with them; for this is not my decision.

Then I decide to go for many walks around the block, bending God’s ear about all these process junkies he sends my way.

Annemarie

 

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One Response to Comfort Zone

  1. PBleicher@aol.com says:

    Annemarie, here’s another side of that. People are sometimes bad actors; they do stuff they shouldn’t do. When a J encounters such ill, he or she tends to make a decision about a PERSON…and of course wants to stick with that decision. One of the functions of a P called by God? To hold out hope, including the hope that an erring colleague can be better tomorrow. Because, with the grace of God, they can. God needs a J to get the newsletter out on time and plug the hole in the dyke and stop whining. But God also needs a P to serve as witness to the hope that bad things (and people) can get better, to look for more evidence that “God is working his purpose out,” to move into a future that is bright with promise. your sister, pat

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